Enough excuses

Have you ever come across people who are always so negative all the time? 

Imagine this; you (and everyone else in this world) go through frustrations and failures all the time. However, there's always that people you know that just has to blame every single person/thing/system in the world,but not themselves.Ann-o-yingg!

When I was much younger,I was one of those teens who fell into society's pressure. I was influenced by not so good things, and I ended up being a complainer. All I do , is complain complain complain . It was only when I was much older did I realize what a negative person I was .

However, I've been more observant with my thoughts and sayings lately.Whenever a negative thought comes by , I try to look at it in a positive way. When I'm going through some difficulties,I don't put the blame on anyone.Instead, I try to figure out how to overcome it.

A very simple example of positivity is my DAD. My dad HATES it if we children don't admit our mistakes. He advised us all the time that the first step to improve yourself is to admit that you are WRONG. He said that instead of blaming this and that , admitting you're wrong takes you to a whole new level.It shows that you are acknowledging your faults,and that you are willing to improve yourself.That is something.

I apply this in everyday life:

Whenever I hear someone complain how hard the syllabus is , how the uni standard is ridiculously difficult, how assignments are too hard ,I ask myself : ''Do I want to waste 14 weeks complaining about something I can't change, or should I use this time to study harder,work better and overcome it ?'' The fact that you are able to excel a difficult task is far more satisfying than failing and blaming others that is 'not your fault'.

Not doing well in your studies? STUDY HARDER . Hungry but lazy to buy food/order delivery/cook? Don't blame the place yr living in and either cool,buy food or go for delivery. Not enough money? START SAVING . I seriously get annoyed with people who complain for trivial matters .Its irritating because the solution is right in front of them but they're just lazy to do it . Stop playing around when yr suppose to be studying, stop buying unnecessary things when you should be saving .As simple as that.

So stop blaming everything in the world and start acknowledging yourself as a person who constantly needs to improve . When you can do that, you'll go far. I assure you that.